Fifteen reasons for unanswered prayer

JP: Good article from Pulpit Magazine. Notes: I extracted and listed 15 reasons God will not answer prayer. I encourage readers to view the entire article for explanation and support.

Does God answer the prayers of unbelievers?

So, does God answer the prayers of unbelievers? A strict yes or no answer is difficult without qualifying the answer in various ways. However, it is noteworthy that the [below] mentioned principles represent some of the key characteristics of an unbeliever. Thus we can safely say that, in general, God does not answer the prayers of an unbeliever.

God does not answer the prayer of those:

  1. Who have personal and selfish motives.
  2. Who regard iniquity in their hearts.
  3. Who remain in sin.
  4. Who offer unworthy service to God.
  5. Who forsake God.
  6. Who reject God’s call.
  7. Who will not heed God’s law.
  8. Who turn a deaf ear to the cry of the poor.
  9. Who are violent.
  10. Who worship idols.
  11. Who have no faith.
  12. Who are living in hypocrisy.
  13. Who are proud of heart.
  14. Who are self-righteous.
  15. Who mistreat God’s people.

JP: I’m one who needs God’s grace and God’s help! I’m sure you are too! James 5:16, “The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much”.


“It’s grace, Jake; it’s all grace.”

JP: A very good article. Hope it will be a blessing to you. What follows is the last article of a 90 year old retired Pastor (Rev Jacob D. Eppinga).

Of Death and Grace


I am dying. Of cancer. This past Christmas was my last. Spring always has been my favorite season. At this writing, I hope to see the spring of 2008. Since childhood, I have loved baseball. Today my marvelous palliative-care physician told me there is a chance that I will watch my dear Detroit Tigers on television on opening day. But that I will not see the World Series.

When I was a boy, I feared going to the dentist. My father took me there anyway. When I was sitting in the chair, my father near me, I begged my father to rescue me from what lay ahead. My father did not do so. Instead he told me that he loved me and that I would be all right. After that, all I could do was trust my father. My father knew what was above and beyond my understanding at the time—that I needed to go to the dentist.

In a similar fashion, tragedy and death are above and beyond my understanding. I pray for God to take them away. For some reason, God doesn’t answer my prayers in the ways I want.

But here’s the point: Above my understanding. But not God’s. He loves me, this I know, so all I can do is trust him, my only comfort in life and death. My father knew, and my heavenly Father knows, things that were and are beyond my comprehension.

Praying boy at McDonald’s

Recently I’ve had a bad experience and then a good experience at McDonald’s. I will briefly mention the bad and then focus on the good.

In both cases, Kathee worked late and I drove home alone (her “coming home” to be by Metro Transit # 793).

Yesterday Kathee joked with me and asked what I would be doing for dinner. I told her I would be making Beef Stroganoff and “did she buy the necessary ingredients?” (I wouldn’t even know what those ingredients would be!). She knowingly (knowing that I don’t cook) kindof gave me that smile and I “criticized” her for not buying the ingredients. Then I said “oh well, guess I’ll go to McDonald’s”.

Basically I need someone to fill my drink and carry my try at McDonald’s. Several weeks ago K worked late and the McD’s manager gave me grief when I asked him to bring my meal to the table.

Last night (a different location – McDonald’s at 169 & Medicine Lake) my experience was all different. The order taker (seeing me coming with hands busy gripping my crutch handles) volunteered to bring my meal to my table. That was pleasant.

Along the way a young couple with (I’m guessing his age) an 8 year old boy sat at the table next to mine. Before they ate, Dad asked his Son if he would like to pray to thank God for dinner. The boy had one of the nicest prayers. He started “Dear Heavenly Father”. He remembered various prayer requests. He prayed for some of his relatives. He thanked God for dinner. And he ended the prayer “in the name of Jesus”.

Wow! Made my day! While I did not want to invade their privacy, I did briefly comment to the young man as I left. I commended him for being a person of prayer.

1 Timothy 4:4,5 “nothing is to be refused if it is received with thanksgiving; for it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer.”